Wednesday, October 21, 2026
online
9am-12:30pm PT | 12pm-3:30pm ET
Wednesday, October 21, 2026
9am-12:30pm PT | 12pm-3:30pm ET
online
Join the Convening and learn about:
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How can an awareness of mortality inform your day-to-day role?
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This moment is an inflection point for Jewish engagement - how does that look?
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What does Jewish wisdom have to say about how we show up for one another?
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Gain inspiration from real-world examples
“[Attending the Convening] helped me realize how much I'm involved with others' "end of life" already. While we don't focus specifically on end-of-life, my students are near the end of life, and many are dealing with death of a loved one.”
- W.K.
“[This] education and supportive community continue to allow me to grow both in my communal offerings and personally.” -B.K.
“The meaningful small-group discussions and dynamic keynotes invited me to think, wonder, and wrestle with complex ideas, while also offering practical frameworks and topics I can bring back to my students.” - Anonymous
“If you want to use your time wisely, become invigorated intellectually about your profession, and meet kindred spirits with whom you can collaborate – attend a Shomer Collective Convening.” - P.R.
“I rarely see professional development that tackles death and dying from a Jewish perspective. Shomer Collective’s Convening not only filled that gap, but it elevated the conversation.” - J.S.
“Shomer Collective is more necessary now than ever. It shows us the powerful jewish toolbox we have to uncover in our backyards to become stronger together.” - L.S.
“[Shomer Collective’s] wisdom around end-of-life, the heart they bring to the conversation, and the offer of common sense strategies are truly a blessing.” - Rabbi J.
Wednesday, October 21, 2026
9am-12:30pm PT | 12pm-3:30pm ET
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Opening on Jewish Ground
9am PT / 12pm ETKeynote: When the Work Comes Home With You
9:15am PT / 12:15pm ETJessica Zitter, MD, MPH, in conversation with Rabbi Melanie Levav
Now We Talk
10:05am PT / 1:05pm ETOur first networking opportunity in small group breakout conversations, inspired by what we’re taking from the keynote presentation.
Break
10:20am PT / 1:20pm ETStay in your breakout to keep schmoozing, or join us for some music recommendations to use at bedside.
This Is How We Do It: Tips & Strategies from the Field
10:30am PT / 1:30pm ETTwo conversations, one underlying question: how does this actually happen in a community?
Before Death: Advance Care Planning, Jewishly.
Facilitators from What Matters and Dorot on what it takes to get people talking — before a crisis forces the conversation.After Death: Preparing Your Community to Show Up.
Shiva guides from across the country on what changes when a community knows how to show up for mourners.
Come with your own questions; you'll leave with tools you can use immediately.
Now we Talk
11:25am PT / 2:25 ETAnother networking opportunity in small group breakout conversations and a chance to envision how death can look different (and better) for the communities you serve.
Jewish Death Doulas: The Missing Piece
11:50am PT / 2:50pm ETWhatever your role — rabbi, chaplain, educator, social worker, funeral director — you know you are just one part of the support needed to talk about death Jewishly. This closing session names what the work of a Jewish death doula actually is, and how you can collaborate for better outcomes.
Close & Next Steps
12:20pm PT / 3:20pm ETWrap up our time together with steps to continue learning and connection.
Post-Convening Schmooze by Region
12:30pm PT / 3:30pm ETRegion-specific breakout rooms stay open until 1pm PT / 4pm ET after close. No agenda, just connection… and a dedicated directory for Convening participants to keep the conversation flowing long after we meet.
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When the Work Comes Home With You
Jessica Zitter, MD, MPH, in conversation with Rabbi Melanie Levav—
Dr. Jessica Zitter doesn't just study mortality – she lives it, in both the hospital and at home.
As a critical care and palliative care physician in Oakland, Dr. Zitter has spent her career at the bedside of the dying. But it was a different kind of urgency that drove her recent New York Times piece, "My parents are in their mid-80s. Why won't they plan for the end?", where she shares that the tension of mortality is not contained only to her professional work of death and dying. That same tension – between clinical expertise and vulnerability, between what she knows and what she can't control in her own family – runs through everything she does.
Dr. Zitter is the founder of Reel Medicine Media, a nonprofit using story to humanize medical culture, and the filmmaker behind three documentaries on death, caregiving, and care itself: the Oscar- and Emmy-nominated “Extremis (2016)”, the award-winning “Caregiver: A Love Story (2020)”, and “The Chaplain & The Doctor (2025)”. Her book, Extreme Measures: Finding a Better Path to the End of Life (2017), traces her own evolution from a doctor trained to extend life at all costs to one who learned to ask what a "good" death really looks like.
Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, The Atlantic, Time, and JAMA, and she's spoken with Terry Gross on Fresh Air, on CBS Sunday Morning, and elsewhere. Named one of Next Avenue's "Influencers in Aging," Dr. Zitter brings a rare vantage point to this year's Convening: someone who has spent decades helping others plan for the end, and is now, personally, trying to have that same conversation with the people she loves most.
FAQ:
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Anyone in the Jewish End-of-Life Field.
This includes:
Rabbis who speak at shivas
Funeral home directors
Chaplains
Hospice staff
And it is also…
Day school educators
Community leaders
Camp directors
JCC professionals
Chevra Kadisha members
Lay leaders
Trust & estate attorneys
Physicians
Death Doulas
Congregational rabbis
Hillel staff
… and more.
If you serve the Jewish community, your members will face mortality: someone else’s or their own.
Are you prepared to support them?
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Shomer Collective values accessibility.
The Convening is free to attend, because we believe that talking about death Jewishly is something from which we all benefit.
We welcome sustaining contributions which help us continue this vital work.
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We have several live opportunities for virtual networking on the day of the Convening, facilitated via Zoom breakout rooms.
The Convening also comes with a directory, to continue the conversation and connections long after the day has ended.
Access to the directory is exclusively available to Convening registrants, and is not for commercial use. Users may opt-out of the directory at the time of registration, or may request to have their info removed at any time.
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Yes!
Each section of the Shomer Collective Convening will be recorded, edited, and uploaded to our website as well as our YouTube channel.
Register for the event to be the first to receive recordings, directly to your inbox.
Thank you to our 2026 Convening Promotional Partners:
*Reference to any specific commercial product, service, or company does not constitute or imply its endorsement or recommendation by Shomer Collective.
Become a Promotional Partner:
The end of life is a major inflection point for Jewish engagement, and your organization has a role to play.
Because death touches us all, the Convening is a great opportunity to equip your community, staff and lay leaders with the skills, network and resources to talk about death, Jewishly when that time comes.
Becoming a promotional partner gives the right people in your community a free opportunity for professional growth and connection.
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Any organization ready to support their audience by talking about death, Jewishly.
This could include…
Jewish organizations and educational institutions
Synagogues
Jewish Community Centers (JCC’s)
Jewish Social Services
Death doula organizations
Seminaries
Chaplaincy & Clergy organizations
Senior living & aging services
Hospice and palliative care organizations
Grief support networks
Funeral homes and cemeteries
and more.
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• Valuable learning and networking opportunities provided at no cost to you
• Recognition on Shomer Collective's website throughout the Convening season
• Your organization's name, logo, and website link in select Convening marketing materials
• Recognition moment during the event
• Ready-to-use marketing materials: logo, graphics, and copy-and-paste language for your newsletter, website, and social media for easy sharing
• Members of your community who are more confident in talking about death, Jewishly
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Active outreach to help recruit participants from your community:
• An email to your relevant audiences (e.g. leadership, trainees, educators, lay leaders)
• A post or announcement on your website and/or social media channels
• Personal outreach to key persons who would benefit from attending
Thank you to our funding partners and the funders in our community.
Your support makes Shomer Collective’s Convening possible.
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